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Tonight I was at the gym working out and I thought… Am I working out because of ONE DAY?  (Ahem, the wedding day)  Or am I working out because I want to be healthy and fit?   I’ve worked out since I was in high school, so it’s nothing new to me, I just wanted to be sure that it’s a lifestyle decision, not a “I’m getting married” decision. 

And then I started to think about this “One Day” thing. 

So many of us drive ourselves mad while we plan our own weddings!  We start to dislike people, family, paper, details, font, ink, stamps, linens, people, each other!  Oh, and the fact that we DO have a budget!  We look at what others have done and wish we could so the same – BUT BETTER!   But, do we really know what this One Day means?  Do we really know, or do we find out the day after the Big Day? 

It just seems like we’ve all gotten lost.  Ok, maybe not all of us.  But many of us.  A wedding is about marriage. 

I look at my guy and think, wow.  Forever.  Him. Me.  Unknown number of kids.  Dog.  House.  Love.  Good.  Bad.  Happy.  Sad.  Forever. 

I hope it’s forever.  Some of us don’t have forever.  But, that’s what the One Day is about.  It’s about the First Day.  And, you really don’t know when the last day is?  Really, it’s a terrible thought.  But, what I’m trying to say is, that marriage is not about the One Day… it’s about all the days after.  

And, I think those days are more important than the One Day.  Don’t ya think? 

I want more than One Day.  I want FOREVER!

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Love will certainly be in the “D” this Valentine’s Day!  Detroit is dishing-up a couple unforgettable “I Will” and “I Do” options!  Whether you’re thinking to drop the rock, tie the knot or simply head downtown for a romantic night out – love will be in the air this Valentine’s Day!

Say ‘I Will’ @ the Detroit Science Center: If you’re looking for an out of this world way to ask your Valentine to forever be yours… check out this contest at the Detroit Science Center.  It’s called the Detroit Science Center Star Trek Ultimate Wedding Package.    Any couple who attends the new Star Trek Exhibition on Saturday, Feb. 14, and proposes will be entered into an on-line contest to win a June wedding that will be held in the actual exhibit!   Click here for more details.  * How romantic if you and your Valentine head down if only to watch the proposals…  I love to watch proposals!  I’m such the people watcher!

Say “I Do” Hassle-Free – That’s right!  Forget Vegas!  Hello Detroit!  Each year Wayne County Clerk Cathy M. Garrett performs a mass multi-lingual Valentines Day ceremony at the Coleman A. Young Municipal Center for those wanting to get hitched.  The cost is only $50 per couple!  The ceremony begins at noon.  All you have to do is show-up at 11:30 a.m. with your Valentine, have your marriage licence in hand and be ready to say ‘I Do!’   They recommend you call and get your name on the list.  They also offer up private ceremonies for $125.  Talk about a hassle-free wedding!  Registration Info: 313-224-5514.

Take a Look @ Love – The Detroit Institute of Arts is hosting a special Valentine’s Day Tour called “The Look of Love.”  You and your honey can take a romantic tour that will connect art and passion.  Enjoy champagne and chocolate along the way!  Tickets are $20. (Doesn’t include champagne and chocolate.)

A Pampered Night Out – Book a couple’s massage… Check out the luxurious spa’s at either MGM or MotorCity Casinos.  Often times they’ll serve-up champagne and chocolate covered strawberries.  Afterwards you can book a room and opt to order take-out or have a quiet and intimate dinner at one of Detroit’s gems!  The massages begin at $100 per person.   

On a budget (and most of us are) click here to check out inexpensive things to do in the “D” on Valentine’s Day!

You can do that too!  But what I’m talking about here are fresh ideas for Date Night!  As you all know (I’m sure), is that when you’ve been with someone for any length of time, it’s easy to fall into the same old dumb routine!  (I’m quoting the Pina Colada Song here). 

Just this morning Kenny and I were talking about re-establishing a date night, but that we need to get away from the norm!  Well, low and behold, we’re not the only ones!  Fiance actually came across this article Fresh, Fun and Sexy Date Ideas on  (How sweet he is to send it to me, right?!)  Check out the article!  There are some great ideas…

Here’s some of my fav’s:

1. Have a DIY dinner. Set up a taco bar with all the fixings or make homemade pizza. “Creating something together is interactive, so it brings you closer,” says relationship therapist Sandra Anne Taylor, author of Act to Attract.

2. Plan wine-tasting excursion and hit a local vineyard to find a new favorite.

(Image Source: There's tons of places around Metro Detroit that offer wine tastings... Big Rock Chop House is one of my favorites!

5. Go on an edu-date. Taking classes on anything from Italian to film bonds you and introduces you to new things.  (Kenny just mentioned something like this!)

7. Play around-the-world cocktails. Sample one specialty drink from a wine bar, one from a pub, and another from a Russian vodka room. Take a taxi.

10. Pamper yourselves with a couples massage at a day spa. “It’s a relaxing, sensual experience that can put you in an amorous mood as well,” says Janice Levine, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in Lexington, Massachusetts.

12. Want to know if you have a future with your guy? Visit a psychic. You don’t have to buy into her predictions, but at least you’ll have a good laugh. 

(Image source: Psychic Reading...How fun would that be?

 14. Test your luck at a nearby casino or horse race. Bring only a set amount of cash that you can afford to lose.  (Horse Races would be FUN! )

The Date Night List originally appeared in Cosmo.

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Married September 19, 2009

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I love my guy. I love my town. I could have a torrid affair with every cake, cookie and cupcake I come across. I love sharing a good bottle wine with good people! And, I truly enjoy blogging about wedding finds. Which is why...

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When planning my wedding I loved researching and stalking out Metro Detroit venues, vendors and other finds. Now that I'm married, I'd like to turn this blog into a Metro Detroit Wedding resource for all of you. So, change is coming soon!

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